For the past week my breast have been really soar, my lower back is killing me, and Ive been waking up feeling really funny. I usually start my period around this time, but I never get cramps before to let me know im going to be starting like other girls. I woke up this morning and I wasnt bleeding reddish color blood like I always do, Im discharging like a dark brown color. Whats goin on?
Answer:
This is normal. Not every month will be the same. It will probably get redder soon.
This is your period if you are having the dark brown stuff first.
It's your period, it just got hung up. Air has been getting to the blood which causes it to turn brown.
I think so. Sore breasts are normal symptoms of PMS.
Sometimes people get menstrual cramps in their lower backs, not their lower abomen.
The brown discharge is normal; it is just more clotted and has been in your uterus a little bit longer than the red blood. I had red periods for about 2 years when I was younger, and now I always get brown discharge on the first day. It looks a little scary, but is really common.
If you are young, or if you have gone on or off the birth control pill, it is normal for your normal menstrual cycle to change a little. Don't worry about it!
Be sure to wear a good bra so that your breasts don't jiggle around and hurt more. Take some Aleve or Ibuprofen for the pain in your back.
I hope I helped!
Yes, that is your period. Each month can be different. Sometimes you may have cramps and sometimes not. The joys of being a woman!
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Is this my period again?
im 13 and got my period on december 5 then agin on jan 11 then none if feb but again on march 10 i havent got one this month but these last few days i have been very bloated and VERY moody ususally i get bloated like this but im not sure if its my period or if im just sick. what do you think?
Answer:
For your age the missed periods are very normal. after 6 mos to 2 yrs, they should regulate..
Your symptoms sound like your period is coming. Youll know every week before that it is coming.
if you are not bleeding then it is not your period. But when you first start your period. .its very irregular some months you have it some you don't. . but honestly you are the only one that knows your body so if these are the symptoms you get when u get ur period then yes i think it is your period coming
well it seems that you have irregular periods(that you get them one month and then not the next)..
when i am about to get it, i also get those kind of symptoms.. which are called the PMS(Pre-Menstrual Symptoms)... i get moody, i start getting mad at people for no reason.. its like i want to be alone...
so i am guessing that in a couple of days you might get it..
i think you are experiencing pms and maybe it will show up in a few days. I too have irregular periods and sometimes dont have a period but get all the bloated feelings and cramps. Its not actually a period until you bleed.
Many things can affect your periods also like stress.
Ya...i think it probably is your period...but if not its ok...your period will come and go as it pleases and won't actually regulate for about the 1st year or so.
Good Luck!
I think those could be signs, normally girls that have already had their period bloat before they get it (like you), I get awful stomach cramps, and I take advil for those, but you can never be sure if it's coming like the next day. Just drink a lot of water, and carry a pad or two in your locker or purse whichever. And during school if you feel something coming, if you can go to the restroom to see and then to your locker if necessary, but if you want, you can always check in the restroom between classes just to make sure.
GL~isa
I think it is your period. I get like that sometimes right before I get mine. and yeah, in a couple months to a year, you'll be on a normal schedule. Don't worry.
I believe it is, wear a pantiliner when u become like this and have some personal protection with u.
Answer:
For your age the missed periods are very normal. after 6 mos to 2 yrs, they should regulate..
Your symptoms sound like your period is coming. Youll know every week before that it is coming.
if you are not bleeding then it is not your period. But when you first start your period. .its very irregular some months you have it some you don't. . but honestly you are the only one that knows your body so if these are the symptoms you get when u get ur period then yes i think it is your period coming
well it seems that you have irregular periods(that you get them one month and then not the next)..
when i am about to get it, i also get those kind of symptoms.. which are called the PMS(Pre-Menstrual Symptoms)... i get moody, i start getting mad at people for no reason.. its like i want to be alone...
so i am guessing that in a couple of days you might get it..
i think you are experiencing pms and maybe it will show up in a few days. I too have irregular periods and sometimes dont have a period but get all the bloated feelings and cramps. Its not actually a period until you bleed.
Many things can affect your periods also like stress.
Ya...i think it probably is your period...but if not its ok...your period will come and go as it pleases and won't actually regulate for about the 1st year or so.
Good Luck!
I think those could be signs, normally girls that have already had their period bloat before they get it (like you), I get awful stomach cramps, and I take advil for those, but you can never be sure if it's coming like the next day. Just drink a lot of water, and carry a pad or two in your locker or purse whichever. And during school if you feel something coming, if you can go to the restroom to see and then to your locker if necessary, but if you want, you can always check in the restroom between classes just to make sure.
GL~isa
I think it is your period. I get like that sometimes right before I get mine. and yeah, in a couple months to a year, you'll be on a normal schedule. Don't worry.
I believe it is, wear a pantiliner when u become like this and have some personal protection with u.
Is this my first period?
I just turned 13. Okay this is hard for me to talk about.. but I know I am very close to having my period. I have been getting discharge for a long while now and I got alot of abdominal cramps. Sometimes I saw this brownish stuff.. [not in my underwear] .. this is the hard part [when I wiped...] Yuck right?! and it didn't look too much like blood.. but today, I saw an actual RED color.. since it was not alot I thought it wasn't my period.., do you think it is??
Answer:
Sounds like you got your first period. Like the others said, talk to your mom. Mine was just a litte bit the first month then nothing for 2-3 months and then it started getting regular.
Sounds like it to me, thats how mine started just a month ago. I am thirteen also.
thats how mine started,but idk.
You really need to talk to your mom, hon. She has been there done that. She'll understand.
Yes, it probably is and if it happens again it is . It takes a while to get regulated.
Answer:
Sounds like you got your first period. Like the others said, talk to your mom. Mine was just a litte bit the first month then nothing for 2-3 months and then it started getting regular.
Sounds like it to me, thats how mine started just a month ago. I am thirteen also.
thats how mine started,but idk.
You really need to talk to your mom, hon. She has been there done that. She'll understand.
Yes, it probably is and if it happens again it is . It takes a while to get regulated.
Is this meal ok?
I'm going to eat a bagel (it's whole wheat) with some butter . Then later some fruits or w/e . Um .. is that ok? ( i mainly mean the bagel )
Answer:
its fine...
ur not going to blow up over a bagel and fruits lol!
Yeah, just don't add TO much butter!
You're carb-heavy. Perhaps you need to incorporate some protein into the meal plan.
Why not? It sounds perfectly good to me! Bon appetit!
P.S. You're not a diet or planning to eat that all week right?
A salad would be healthier but a bagel is better than a burger i guess.
yeah its ok for breakfast i think lol
peanut butter has protien.
a bagel...der der der
YES
i ate a bagel with lots of butter and cream cheese for an after school snack!
dont make me feel like such a fatty!
light protein with nice vitamins from the fruits well done
The whole wheat bagel is a good start, but without the butter. Maybe you can add some peanut butter or apple butter instead. Also fruit is great!!
Answer:
its fine...
ur not going to blow up over a bagel and fruits lol!
Yeah, just don't add TO much butter!
You're carb-heavy. Perhaps you need to incorporate some protein into the meal plan.
Why not? It sounds perfectly good to me! Bon appetit!
P.S. You're not a diet or planning to eat that all week right?
A salad would be healthier but a bagel is better than a burger i guess.
yeah its ok for breakfast i think lol
peanut butter has protien.
a bagel...der der der
YES
i ate a bagel with lots of butter and cream cheese for an after school snack!
dont make me feel like such a fatty!
light protein with nice vitamins from the fruits well done
The whole wheat bagel is a good start, but without the butter. Maybe you can add some peanut butter or apple butter instead. Also fruit is great!!
Is this me ovulating, me being gasy or both?
i feel like my lower abdomen is really heavy and i i feel so bloated. i have to admit that my eating habit this week has been really awful but starting tomorrow i'm going to do things much better. i had my period on the 15 of april so i'll get it between the 13 and the 17th of may...so is this me being gasy, me ovulating or a mixture of both?
Answer:
Some women can experience some discomfort upon ovulation. Typically it starts 14 days after the start of your period. So you right in the ball park for it. Also the bad eating habits, such as NOT EATING (bad girl), will contribute to the bloated yuccky feeling. So you are probably experiencing a little bit of both.
It sounds like its from what you ate - probably gassy type food. Ovulation usually does not hurt.
you probably ate something that gave you lots of gas =you gotta let it out though=so don't be embarrassed as it's a natural part of bodily functions
If your bloated and passing gas then it is just the food you ate, plus I do not think your ovulating yet.
Answer:
Some women can experience some discomfort upon ovulation. Typically it starts 14 days after the start of your period. So you right in the ball park for it. Also the bad eating habits, such as NOT EATING (bad girl), will contribute to the bloated yuccky feeling. So you are probably experiencing a little bit of both.
It sounds like its from what you ate - probably gassy type food. Ovulation usually does not hurt.
you probably ate something that gave you lots of gas =you gotta let it out though=so don't be embarrassed as it's a natural part of bodily functions
If your bloated and passing gas then it is just the food you ate, plus I do not think your ovulating yet.
Is this is normal ??!?
is this is normal. last night I was hanging out with my Friends and my BF. all of them were Indians. my BF is paki. them we eat. Indian food. after I finished eating . my blood pressure get high and my hear start betting so fast and my body became hot . I felt like I have a fever. its so weird. and the problem I felt like I wanna make out with my BF so bad. and I felt so hot. and I was all over my BF.is like I eat viagra or something is this is normal. I asked m,y BF what kinda food is that. he told me Indians used a lot of different spices and stuff that gives u energy ... and because my body is not ..used to it. I don't know. he was like that's why Indian get a lot of kids ahhah
Answer:
Did anyone slip and Exstacy pill in your food..sounds like it to me...has the exact same effect...your bf might've crushed ip up and dumped it in your food..it has that effect.You get really really hot and your heart beats really really fast and you get really really horny..oh yeah..thats what it sounds like..I know..my bf and I popped one together when we first started talking and he was sweating all over me and it made him last for hours.There are a lot of negative effects though..if thats what it is..type it on google.
i dont know. but i want some of what you ate.!!
You could have had an allergic reaction to something in the food. Check with your doctor.
thats the stupidest thing ive ever heard i eat indian food all the time and its the same as eating any other food
i think it is so normal, indian food is really hot and they do use a lot of spices.
i think it's normal especially if u're not used to eating indian food. so chill :)
i think it's a stupid ques food has nothing to do with it!
You need major diversity in your food group and life. If your BF is PAKI I really do not see much difference between his food and indian food they both use spices almost. Like I said DIVERSITY or you are just ignorant and a drama queen.
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Did anyone slip and Exstacy pill in your food..sounds like it to me...has the exact same effect...your bf might've crushed ip up and dumped it in your food..it has that effect.You get really really hot and your heart beats really really fast and you get really really horny..oh yeah..thats what it sounds like..I know..my bf and I popped one together when we first started talking and he was sweating all over me and it made him last for hours.There are a lot of negative effects though..if thats what it is..type it on google.
i dont know. but i want some of what you ate.!!
You could have had an allergic reaction to something in the food. Check with your doctor.
thats the stupidest thing ive ever heard i eat indian food all the time and its the same as eating any other food
i think it is so normal, indian food is really hot and they do use a lot of spices.
i think it's normal especially if u're not used to eating indian food. so chill :)
i think it's a stupid ques food has nothing to do with it!
You need major diversity in your food group and life. If your BF is PAKI I really do not see much difference between his food and indian food they both use spices almost. Like I said DIVERSITY or you are just ignorant and a drama queen.
Is this is a bad idea to gain weight?
I've heard that birth control pills can help you gain weight. In an article i found online, it also says that it can help with acne, irregular periods, and such. I've just turned fifteen years old and I need to gain a lot more weight. So should I take birth control pills? Not to excess, of course, just a little amount. Like three times a month?
Answer:
i dont think that thats a good idea,
if u take it then u have to take it every day! u cant just take it once a week, or you will have problems with your body
yes it doesn make u gain weight, ive gained 15 pounds in 2 and a half months, and went up from a D to a DD. i am using yaz
good luck to u
Take birthcontrol only 3 times a month?
No, you either take it or you dont take it.
There is no such midway thing as that.
To gain weight, dont gain fat. Gain muscle.
Unless your fat percentage is extremely low or something.
May i ask what is your height and weight, that would help a lot. :)
OK, you arent that much more under weight than i am.
Dont worry about it. If you do want to gain weight, eat 5 healthy meals a day and excercise to gain muscle, which weighs more than fat.
But dont worry about your weight. You'll gain some in couple of years anyway.
Birthcontrol needs to be taken everyday.
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i dont think that thats a good idea,
if u take it then u have to take it every day! u cant just take it once a week, or you will have problems with your body
yes it doesn make u gain weight, ive gained 15 pounds in 2 and a half months, and went up from a D to a DD. i am using yaz
good luck to u
Take birthcontrol only 3 times a month?
No, you either take it or you dont take it.
There is no such midway thing as that.
To gain weight, dont gain fat. Gain muscle.
Unless your fat percentage is extremely low or something.
May i ask what is your height and weight, that would help a lot. :)
OK, you arent that much more under weight than i am.
Dont worry about it. If you do want to gain weight, eat 5 healthy meals a day and excercise to gain muscle, which weighs more than fat.
But dont worry about your weight. You'll gain some in couple of years anyway.
Birthcontrol needs to be taken everyday.
Is this heartrate normal?
I counted approx 68 beats per minute. Is this normal for a 22 year old female, 5'2" and 135 lbs? Or is it too high/low?
Answer:
It is fine. Normal HR is between 60-80
No. You are clinically dead.
It's fine. Normal heart rate is 60-100 and the healthier you are, the lower it'll be.
It is fine.
no. you will not live much longer.
It does sound a little high, have your doctor check it out. The heart rate usually slows after childhood. When you check your heart rate, make sure that you haven't been exerting yourself just before taking your pulse. Even walking or rushing around doing housework will increase the rate.
Normal heart rate for an adult is 60 to 80 beats/minute.
Answer:
It is fine. Normal HR is between 60-80
No. You are clinically dead.
It's fine. Normal heart rate is 60-100 and the healthier you are, the lower it'll be.
It is fine.
no. you will not live much longer.
It does sound a little high, have your doctor check it out. The heart rate usually slows after childhood. When you check your heart rate, make sure that you haven't been exerting yourself just before taking your pulse. Even walking or rushing around doing housework will increase the rate.
Normal heart rate for an adult is 60 to 80 beats/minute.
Is this healthy?
for females to make a bowle movment every other day? I dont think so.
Answer:
Depends on what' she's eating. I'm extremely regular..i got about 2 times a day (sorry for the tmi). but i also have IBS so the coffee triggers me in the AM...
if she's always gone ever other day, then it's normaly for her body. if she eats a lot of meats, it will be more infrequent
You mean a bowel movement? Yes, of course, it is healthy for anyone to do that daily.
Of course it is, some women make BM's only once or twice a week.
Answer:
Depends on what' she's eating. I'm extremely regular..i got about 2 times a day (sorry for the tmi). but i also have IBS so the coffee triggers me in the AM...
if she's always gone ever other day, then it's normaly for her body. if she eats a lot of meats, it will be more infrequent
You mean a bowel movement? Yes, of course, it is healthy for anyone to do that daily.
Of course it is, some women make BM's only once or twice a week.
Is this good?
my gf is on diet to lose weight and she today only eating apple, no food till next thursday so is good thing to do?
Answer:
Starvation is not a good way to loose weight. It is better to make small sustainable changes than drastic ones that you can keep up with.
Sooner or later she WILL give in to the urge to eat normally and then she will probably binge.
A good and small step to take if you want to loose weight is to cut you soda intake.
Quick fix, short term diets NEVER work since you won't be staying on them for long.
No, she'll actually gain weight because her body will think she's starving and whatever she takes in will automatically go to fat.
She needs to eat either 3 balanced meals a day, or 6 smaller meals a day and just eat right.
NO
she might be developing an eating disorder. tell someone
noooooooooooo that is bad she is going to end up getting fatter because inside your stomach the acid is eating the insides of you so she can probbaly get fatter tell her to do something better to be on a diet!
NO! That is not at all good for her to do.
You really need to let her know that starving herself is never the way to go about dieting.
She needs to get on a proper diet, and exercise plan.
Best of luck!
No, she'll probably faint and/or die. Or after two days be so hungry that after crying for an hour she'll go to Sonic and order every sandwich they have!
Seriously people, you can't eat nothing for a week without suffering some SERIOUS consequences. And what do you plan on doing after not eating for a week? Eating whatever you want for a week? It is healthier to be happy and eat sensibly all the time.
Why don't you encourage her to just have healthy eating habits, like maybe make her a nice dinner, or just a nice pbj and some carrots! That is a healthy meal.
Also, you guys could exercise together. I would LOOOOOVE it if my boyfriend would go running, walking, or biking with me (or playing basketball, any sport, swimming!).
This is gonna sound stupid, but how do you start a topic and ask a question?
NO you need to get her to a Doctor because if she keeps eating like that she will get a olser
no it's wrong because she will actually gain weight. just ell her to actually eat about 5-6 meals a day but like half the portion that she would normally eat. something realy helthy, like for example for luch tuna, with a little bit of mayo, on wheat bread and a glass of orange juice. it really good and very healthy! for breakfast a bole of wheat cereal with like 2% milk or skim milk (i prefer 2% skim is gross) and for dinner maybe fish or something. no junk food. and the good part AS MUCH FRUITS AND VEGGY'S AS HEART DESIRES! cuz no matter how much of them u eat, u will never get fat!! i just love that about fruit!!
good luck! hope i helped
no she needs to eat a balance meal and needs to eat three times a day breakfast. Lunch, and dinner and she needs to eat snaks in between meals to get her metabolism going and she needs to watch her fat,carbs, and calories,and she needs to workout between 30min to an hour for lets say 5days a week with two days rest cuz thats what i did to lose my weight and i got great results and she will to if she just stick with it
If I were you I would try to comfort her to a point where she feels secure but not scared--(girls will get scared if you are worried about them, i dont know why)--- Then slowly encourage more eating. For example, if you are out eating; then offer her some of your food if she doesn't order enough food for a normal woman. If all else fails, then confront her on the problem. If she denies this problem, then you need to talk to someone close to her (Mother, Father, Bro...). This is a serious problem if not solved. If you feel she is in danger, she may be. These sorts of problems can leed to Anarexia or even death----- but death is only if isn't solved within a month and a half or so. So you dont have to worry too much. Hope it helps!
NO! this leads to many health problems. "Diets" like this cause you to lose muscle mass, which slows your metabolism. This means thar when you eat, your body converts the energy to fat very quickly, meaning you then GAIN fat.
Sounds like she has a problem ie eating disorder. Be very supportive, and if the behaviour continues dont be afraid to seek help on her behalf, ie parent, counselor, teacher, nurse, doctor.
What she is doing is NOT safe. She wont be getting enough vitamins etc, and this can make you very sick, even kill you.
nope, shell actually gain weight. tell her how unhealthy she is being! the only good diet is not a diet at all but a life change. Weight Watchers is the ONLY thing that works.
Absolutly not. You need to help her get through what she's going through now before it gets too bad. Obviously she feels insecure about her body and feels like she needs to lose weight. Tell her she's gorgeous the way she is, and that if she want's to stay gorgeous she needs to eat. She will end up gaining weight in the aftermath because she is starving herself. Once she starts eating again, she will gain all that weight back plus more. She needs protein among other things to function. She needs to want to help herself with this problem for anything to change. She's going in the wrong direction. If she wants to lose weight, tell her there are beter ways to do it.
Absolutely wrong! This can be very dangerous for anyone. But a young girl especially. She can start having problems with her blood sugars, and that is just a start. It can screw up her menstrual cycles...which means that if she keeps doing this she may wreck herself for having babies. Also,she can shut down all of her bodily functions one by one. Her body will be starving for food and so it will try to save her energy to keep her alive thinking she is dying! It can cause kidney damage, liver damage, and if it shuts down the pancreas she may as well forget about losing weight cuz noone will see her when she is so sickly and in the hospital. Don't you kids get it about the starvation diets? They kill ya not make you thin. Has she tried the Weight Watchers Points diet?? They have it online. Or she can go to a weight watchers in her area. She can start her own little program with her friends that want to lose weight. Go for walks and do exercises to music. Dancing is a great way to lose weight! But a body needs to be able to function to help you lose. See if she stops eating say this week ok? Then her body sees it is not getting the nourishment it needs to go on. So the body itself will store up what little fat she does have til l she eats again. Then when she decides that this diet is not a good thing and goes back to eating. then she will confuse her body into thinking ok now we have alot of food so we best save up the fat now so in case its another week before we eat. Do you see the cycle?? It is not a good thing for her or anyone to do this type of dieting. Sorry I sound like an angry mom. But I am a mom! But I do know this is true ok? Please listen ok?I am not angry at you just scared for your GF! So get her help ok? Good Luck and God Bless!
Answer:
Starvation is not a good way to loose weight. It is better to make small sustainable changes than drastic ones that you can keep up with.
Sooner or later she WILL give in to the urge to eat normally and then she will probably binge.
A good and small step to take if you want to loose weight is to cut you soda intake.
Quick fix, short term diets NEVER work since you won't be staying on them for long.
No, she'll actually gain weight because her body will think she's starving and whatever she takes in will automatically go to fat.
She needs to eat either 3 balanced meals a day, or 6 smaller meals a day and just eat right.
NO
she might be developing an eating disorder. tell someone
noooooooooooo that is bad she is going to end up getting fatter because inside your stomach the acid is eating the insides of you so she can probbaly get fatter tell her to do something better to be on a diet!
NO! That is not at all good for her to do.
You really need to let her know that starving herself is never the way to go about dieting.
She needs to get on a proper diet, and exercise plan.
Best of luck!
No, she'll probably faint and/or die. Or after two days be so hungry that after crying for an hour she'll go to Sonic and order every sandwich they have!
Seriously people, you can't eat nothing for a week without suffering some SERIOUS consequences. And what do you plan on doing after not eating for a week? Eating whatever you want for a week? It is healthier to be happy and eat sensibly all the time.
Why don't you encourage her to just have healthy eating habits, like maybe make her a nice dinner, or just a nice pbj and some carrots! That is a healthy meal.
Also, you guys could exercise together. I would LOOOOOVE it if my boyfriend would go running, walking, or biking with me (or playing basketball, any sport, swimming!).
This is gonna sound stupid, but how do you start a topic and ask a question?
NO you need to get her to a Doctor because if she keeps eating like that she will get a olser
no it's wrong because she will actually gain weight. just ell her to actually eat about 5-6 meals a day but like half the portion that she would normally eat. something realy helthy, like for example for luch tuna, with a little bit of mayo, on wheat bread and a glass of orange juice. it really good and very healthy! for breakfast a bole of wheat cereal with like 2% milk or skim milk (i prefer 2% skim is gross) and for dinner maybe fish or something. no junk food. and the good part AS MUCH FRUITS AND VEGGY'S AS HEART DESIRES! cuz no matter how much of them u eat, u will never get fat!! i just love that about fruit!!
good luck! hope i helped
no she needs to eat a balance meal and needs to eat three times a day breakfast. Lunch, and dinner and she needs to eat snaks in between meals to get her metabolism going and she needs to watch her fat,carbs, and calories,and she needs to workout between 30min to an hour for lets say 5days a week with two days rest cuz thats what i did to lose my weight and i got great results and she will to if she just stick with it
If I were you I would try to comfort her to a point where she feels secure but not scared--(girls will get scared if you are worried about them, i dont know why)--- Then slowly encourage more eating. For example, if you are out eating; then offer her some of your food if she doesn't order enough food for a normal woman. If all else fails, then confront her on the problem. If she denies this problem, then you need to talk to someone close to her (Mother, Father, Bro...). This is a serious problem if not solved. If you feel she is in danger, she may be. These sorts of problems can leed to Anarexia or even death----- but death is only if isn't solved within a month and a half or so. So you dont have to worry too much. Hope it helps!
NO! this leads to many health problems. "Diets" like this cause you to lose muscle mass, which slows your metabolism. This means thar when you eat, your body converts the energy to fat very quickly, meaning you then GAIN fat.
Sounds like she has a problem ie eating disorder. Be very supportive, and if the behaviour continues dont be afraid to seek help on her behalf, ie parent, counselor, teacher, nurse, doctor.
What she is doing is NOT safe. She wont be getting enough vitamins etc, and this can make you very sick, even kill you.
nope, shell actually gain weight. tell her how unhealthy she is being! the only good diet is not a diet at all but a life change. Weight Watchers is the ONLY thing that works.
Absolutly not. You need to help her get through what she's going through now before it gets too bad. Obviously she feels insecure about her body and feels like she needs to lose weight. Tell her she's gorgeous the way she is, and that if she want's to stay gorgeous she needs to eat. She will end up gaining weight in the aftermath because she is starving herself. Once she starts eating again, she will gain all that weight back plus more. She needs protein among other things to function. She needs to want to help herself with this problem for anything to change. She's going in the wrong direction. If she wants to lose weight, tell her there are beter ways to do it.
Absolutely wrong! This can be very dangerous for anyone. But a young girl especially. She can start having problems with her blood sugars, and that is just a start. It can screw up her menstrual cycles...which means that if she keeps doing this she may wreck herself for having babies. Also,she can shut down all of her bodily functions one by one. Her body will be starving for food and so it will try to save her energy to keep her alive thinking she is dying! It can cause kidney damage, liver damage, and if it shuts down the pancreas she may as well forget about losing weight cuz noone will see her when she is so sickly and in the hospital. Don't you kids get it about the starvation diets? They kill ya not make you thin. Has she tried the Weight Watchers Points diet?? They have it online. Or she can go to a weight watchers in her area. She can start her own little program with her friends that want to lose weight. Go for walks and do exercises to music. Dancing is a great way to lose weight! But a body needs to be able to function to help you lose. See if she stops eating say this week ok? Then her body sees it is not getting the nourishment it needs to go on. So the body itself will store up what little fat she does have til l she eats again. Then when she decides that this diet is not a good thing and goes back to eating. then she will confuse her body into thinking ok now we have alot of food so we best save up the fat now so in case its another week before we eat. Do you see the cycle?? It is not a good thing for her or anyone to do this type of dieting. Sorry I sound like an angry mom. But I am a mom! But I do know this is true ok? Please listen ok?I am not angry at you just scared for your GF! So get her help ok? Good Luck and God Bless!
Is this exercise healthy for my boyfriend and I?
I get a cardio workout and he gets an abs workout.
Is it too dangerous or is it good.
Please explain and Thanks.
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lol are you serious?
that is SO dangerous for him!! i mean, seriously, you could damage his digestive system, your stomach is like, your most sensitive place, it houses most of your organs, besides the ones in your chest. Or, you could even hurt his ribs if you fall or get too off balanced from his stomach... ahh!
Uhhh.. ouch!
HAHA! You must be retarded! First of all, that wouldn't do any good as a cardio or ab workout. Second, you're going hurt him jumping on his stomach. Stop being morons and join a gym... or at least run around your neighborhood.
YOU ARE BOTH F UCKED
lol FEEL THE BURN! and if his intestines come up through his mouth just start shouting NO PAIN NO GAIN!!
Is it too dangerous or is it good.
Please explain and Thanks.
Answer:
lol are you serious?
that is SO dangerous for him!! i mean, seriously, you could damage his digestive system, your stomach is like, your most sensitive place, it houses most of your organs, besides the ones in your chest. Or, you could even hurt his ribs if you fall or get too off balanced from his stomach... ahh!
Uhhh.. ouch!
HAHA! You must be retarded! First of all, that wouldn't do any good as a cardio or ab workout. Second, you're going hurt him jumping on his stomach. Stop being morons and join a gym... or at least run around your neighborhood.
YOU ARE BOTH F UCKED
lol FEEL THE BURN! and if his intestines come up through his mouth just start shouting NO PAIN NO GAIN!!
Is this depo going to get out of my system soon?
Ok, I got the shot once back in October, then never again. Pretty much all of the first three weeks in March I had random spotting and cramping. I would cramp gradually from light to pretty bad, then it would stop, and I'd spot, no more than 2 days at a time. Then in the beginning of April, spotting and cramping for for like 2 days in the beginning of the month. Yep, and now today, same thing, but no spotting yet. Ans sometimes the spotting is so light it is just pink. I take a pregnancy test once a week and still nothing. I have gone to the doc for my yearly exam, and they haven't gotten back to me. That was a month and a half ago, so I don't think they found anything weird going on. Has anyone else ever had this kind of craziness? I know depo can take a while to get out of your system, but really is cramping and spotting common?
Answer:
The washout for DPMA is 3-6 months (6 mos. being the less common end of the time spectrum, 3 being the average). You should insist that your doctor address your concerns immediately; if they can't be bothered to get back to you, find a new one who can take an interest in your case. Good luck and hope it all resolves soon.
i heard that it gets out of your body in 3 months i dont know why you are still having the side effects. call the nurse or your doctor and ask please
Hi! I was on Depo for 6 month before I got fixed. It took 3 months to get out of my system. If you had cramps before you took Depo, it will come back again. I know my cramps came back after the shot was almost out of my system. I don't remember about spotting though... I can't help you there. Call your DR and let him or her know what's going on.
Depo really screws with a woman's body (I was on it for four years and am sO glad I am off of it.).
Talk to your doctor about what is going on and get on a birth control pill in order to start regulating your system again.
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The washout for DPMA is 3-6 months (6 mos. being the less common end of the time spectrum, 3 being the average). You should insist that your doctor address your concerns immediately; if they can't be bothered to get back to you, find a new one who can take an interest in your case. Good luck and hope it all resolves soon.
i heard that it gets out of your body in 3 months i dont know why you are still having the side effects. call the nurse or your doctor and ask please
Hi! I was on Depo for 6 month before I got fixed. It took 3 months to get out of my system. If you had cramps before you took Depo, it will come back again. I know my cramps came back after the shot was almost out of my system. I don't remember about spotting though... I can't help you there. Call your DR and let him or her know what's going on.
Depo really screws with a woman's body (I was on it for four years and am sO glad I am off of it.).
Talk to your doctor about what is going on and get on a birth control pill in order to start regulating your system again.
Is this dangerous?
To experience pleasure I have a few times (4-5) put on a shower and directed the water up my vagin. Is this dangerous? Could this damage my insides? I'm a bit worried and just
Answer:
It is not dangerous to run the water from the shower head over yourself. It can be very pleasureable. However it would be dangerous to let the water enter you because of the pressure. It could cause serious infections, and a lot more problems. You never want any kind of liquid in any amount to be directed into your vagina. Unless the liquid is specifically for that reason. But not tap water.
I hope this helps you out.
Not unless you experience pain.
Only direct it against yourself, never insert anything that could cause a buildup of pressure.
The water can actually cause an infection. If you direct the water along the vaginal opening, it is pleasurable and safe.
your vagina creates some natural secretions, if you put water up there you are gonna wash away those secretions and make it dry that tends to give you yeast infections which are really uncomfortable. so i would suggest to buy a vibrator
No, its not dangerious..I've done it for years...I'm assuming your directing it on your clyt, if so...go with it.
Answer:
It is not dangerous to run the water from the shower head over yourself. It can be very pleasureable. However it would be dangerous to let the water enter you because of the pressure. It could cause serious infections, and a lot more problems. You never want any kind of liquid in any amount to be directed into your vagina. Unless the liquid is specifically for that reason. But not tap water.
I hope this helps you out.
Not unless you experience pain.
Only direct it against yourself, never insert anything that could cause a buildup of pressure.
The water can actually cause an infection. If you direct the water along the vaginal opening, it is pleasurable and safe.
your vagina creates some natural secretions, if you put water up there you are gonna wash away those secretions and make it dry that tends to give you yeast infections which are really uncomfortable. so i would suggest to buy a vibrator
No, its not dangerious..I've done it for years...I'm assuming your directing it on your clyt, if so...go with it.
Is this changes normal?
i am 24 years old. i have this symptoms of tender, swollen breast and high body temperature day before and during my period. ever since i lost weight (due to work pressure), my breast shrinks in size and i dont have any of these symptoms that i used to have during my period. is this normal?
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some women get symptoms, some do not..ask your gyn if you are concerned..
yes
Answer:
some women get symptoms, some do not..ask your gyn if you are concerned..
yes
Is this cervical mucus?
I have irregular periods I know It would be hard to know when I ovulate. When my period ends I get lots of this sicky strechy clear white cervical mucus. Then It will be dry maybe a week Then I'll start see this thin clear cervical mucus it alittle bit sticky its watery. Does this mean I ovulated. Thanks. Note sorry for grossing you guys out PEACE!!
Answer:
Most women ovulate 14 days after the start of there period, but you can ovulate anytime during your cycle, even if you have regular periods. The clear watery discharge a week after your period is from ovulation, it helps the sperm swim to the egg when you are trying to have a baby. It should only last for 1-3 days, with no color or odor.
I always thought the mucus was when you ovulated...I could be wrong though
it could be an abnormal discharge
go see the doctor
Answer:
Most women ovulate 14 days after the start of there period, but you can ovulate anytime during your cycle, even if you have regular periods. The clear watery discharge a week after your period is from ovulation, it helps the sperm swim to the egg when you are trying to have a baby. It should only last for 1-3 days, with no color or odor.
I always thought the mucus was when you ovulated...I could be wrong though
it could be an abnormal discharge
go see the doctor
IS this blood report okay?
Is blood test report okay? what this report means, good or bad?
My mom got kidney sists..she removed them 5 months ago...right now, another sist is again increasing in size....her last blood report shows:
S Cholesterol (total) = Her result: 193 mg/dl ; Standard: upto 200 mg/dl.
S Cholesterol (HDL) = Her report: 40 mg/dl; Standard: %26gt; 35 mg/dl
S Cholesterol (LDL) = her report: 131.8 mg/dl; Standard:%26lt;150 mg/dl
S triglycerides = her report:106 mg/dl; Standard: 50-150 mg/dl
S Urea = Her report:4.8 mmol/L; Standard:1.7-8.3 mmol/L
S Creatinine = Her report:98 mol/L; Standard:F: 45-84mol/L
are these all perfect? if bad, which one is bad? and, due to why? (her pressure is increasing...)
Answer:
All are within normal limits except for the creatinine, which can be controlled. Nothing to worry about. Talk to your doctor regarding the creatinine and how to get it within the normal limits. Best of luck to you!
OMG NO
The only tests that have to do with kidney function listed are the urea and the creatinine. It appears that her kidney function is ok. Cysts on the kidney can affect the blood pressure because the adrenal gland is on the kidney and puts out hormones that reguate BP. It would help more to know what kind of cysts they were and where. She might need a cystogram and/or pelvic ultrasound.
most of her blood test are all within normal ranges. her creatinine is elevated. as far as her pressure increasing, if she is on HP medications they may need to be adjusted her doctor would be the person to ask these question there are other reasons a persons blood pressure to rise. Nobody on answers can give you direct medical advice.
My mom got kidney sists..she removed them 5 months ago...right now, another sist is again increasing in size....her last blood report shows:
S Cholesterol (total) = Her result: 193 mg/dl ; Standard: upto 200 mg/dl.
S Cholesterol (HDL) = Her report: 40 mg/dl; Standard: %26gt; 35 mg/dl
S Cholesterol (LDL) = her report: 131.8 mg/dl; Standard:%26lt;150 mg/dl
S triglycerides = her report:106 mg/dl; Standard: 50-150 mg/dl
S Urea = Her report:4.8 mmol/L; Standard:1.7-8.3 mmol/L
S Creatinine = Her report:98 mol/L; Standard:F: 45-84mol/L
are these all perfect? if bad, which one is bad? and, due to why? (her pressure is increasing...)
Answer:
All are within normal limits except for the creatinine, which can be controlled. Nothing to worry about. Talk to your doctor regarding the creatinine and how to get it within the normal limits. Best of luck to you!
OMG NO
The only tests that have to do with kidney function listed are the urea and the creatinine. It appears that her kidney function is ok. Cysts on the kidney can affect the blood pressure because the adrenal gland is on the kidney and puts out hormones that reguate BP. It would help more to know what kind of cysts they were and where. She might need a cystogram and/or pelvic ultrasound.
most of her blood test are all within normal ranges. her creatinine is elevated. as far as her pressure increasing, if she is on HP medications they may need to be adjusted her doctor would be the person to ask these question there are other reasons a persons blood pressure to rise. Nobody on answers can give you direct medical advice.
Is this bad?
okay, well, i got my period in 4th grade, and so will my hips be getting any bigger or wider, but im only 102 pounds, but with big hips, and i really dont want them to get bigger! well what do u think?
Answer:
Your hips depend upon your genetics, not your period.
I have always had small hips (even now that hormones are whacked and I am overweight) and I got my period in 2nd grade.
Your body will develop naturally and gradually, and you will not look disproportiate. As you mature, your entire body changes, not just your hips.
well i i'm not sure but i think your hips might gorw a little more, but you'll defedentially grow into. I mean seriously do you ever see adults walking around that have huge hips and tiny bodies. Just hang in there! you'll grow into your body soon! Just stay active and eat right, youll' n fine just give it time.
it depends some ppl have big hips b./c of the big hip bone. I also got my period when i was in the forth grade, and i bearly have hips
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Your hips depend upon your genetics, not your period.
I have always had small hips (even now that hormones are whacked and I am overweight) and I got my period in 2nd grade.
Your body will develop naturally and gradually, and you will not look disproportiate. As you mature, your entire body changes, not just your hips.
well i i'm not sure but i think your hips might gorw a little more, but you'll defedentially grow into. I mean seriously do you ever see adults walking around that have huge hips and tiny bodies. Just hang in there! you'll grow into your body soon! Just stay active and eat right, youll' n fine just give it time.
it depends some ppl have big hips b./c of the big hip bone. I also got my period when i was in the forth grade, and i bearly have hips
Is this abnormal?
Is it abnormal that my nails grow 1 cm every like 4 days?
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Does your hair grow that fast too?
Glad to hear your not biting them anymore...
; )
they dont usually grow that fast
Answer:
Does your hair grow that fast too?
Glad to hear your not biting them anymore...
; )
they dont usually grow that fast
Is this a UTI?
Okay, well I was sick yesterday with a horrible stomach virus (vomiting, chills, body aches, fever, etc.). This morning when I woke up I felt better. My temp was 97.4 and other than feeling a bit weak I was better. Anyway, this evening about 5:00 I started getting chills again and my throat was a little sore so I took my temp and it was 99.8. I decided to go to the doctor since I never run a fever and it had gone away and then came back. Anyway, the doc did a strep test which was negative and a urine test. He said that I have a UTI. Is this possible when I do not have any of the other classic symptoms of a UTI? Oh, also I have noticed a bad smelling vaginal discharge since yesterday which I did not even think to mention to the doc. I just finished my period though so I was thinking that it could be related to that but now I am wondering if that has something to do with my fever and stuff? Could it be from dehydration?... I am really confused. Please help!
Answer:
Yes, sometimes one can have atypical (not usually normal) symptoms when having a urinary tract infection. Sometimes UTIs if one has it long enough can spread to the kidney which could also possibly explain the fever you noticed.
Also, sometimes when they do the urine dip (where they check to see if there are indicators of a UTI or other problems) they can catch a UTI in the earliest stages, which can mean that the lady may not feel any symptoms at first either.
As for the smell from your vagina that sounds like it could be something called bacterial vaginosis. I would definitely recommend going ahead and calling the dr back to let them know of this symptom and see what they think.
Answer:
Yes, sometimes one can have atypical (not usually normal) symptoms when having a urinary tract infection. Sometimes UTIs if one has it long enough can spread to the kidney which could also possibly explain the fever you noticed.
Also, sometimes when they do the urine dip (where they check to see if there are indicators of a UTI or other problems) they can catch a UTI in the earliest stages, which can mean that the lady may not feel any symptoms at first either.
As for the smell from your vagina that sounds like it could be something called bacterial vaginosis. I would definitely recommend going ahead and calling the dr back to let them know of this symptom and see what they think.
Is this a sign?
I am in my mid-twenties, and I have been working, meaning getting paid with a check in my name for 10 years now. For some reason, I used to work so much harder, literally bust my you know what. Now, I just can't do what I did anymore. Is this a sign that I have become restless or aging? But I think I'm young!
Answer:
If you've been doing physical work maybe your body is just getting tired.If it's mental work maybe you need to try something different.
Either way you should try to figure out what you like to do and are passionate about, then try to find a job in that area.
Good Luck %26 don't bust your 'you know' anymore, it's not good for you.
i think restless
u only truely age wen u feel aged.
try something new
You could just be getting bored with your job. Are you healthy? Been experiencing any physical problems? Maybe you should go have a physical.
well mabey you need to stretch and exercise. that always helps me when i work.
Answer:
If you've been doing physical work maybe your body is just getting tired.If it's mental work maybe you need to try something different.
Either way you should try to figure out what you like to do and are passionate about, then try to find a job in that area.
Good Luck %26 don't bust your 'you know' anymore, it's not good for you.
i think restless
u only truely age wen u feel aged.
try something new
You could just be getting bored with your job. Are you healthy? Been experiencing any physical problems? Maybe you should go have a physical.
well mabey you need to stretch and exercise. that always helps me when i work.
Is this a RED FLAG for violence and abuse?
I went to a party on Saturday with my boyfriend... We're both 17 and we've been dating for a month... At the party he was drinking, but I was driving so I didn't drink much...
After he'd had a few beers, he started trying to feel me up in front of everyone at the party, I wasnt comfortable with it so I tried to stop him... Over the course of the night I told him to stop at least 10 times, and I physically pushed him away from me at least 10 times... At one point I tried to just walk away from him and he grabbed me and pulled me back so I couldnt leave...
This isnt the first time he's been a bit forceful but it's by far the worst... He's also more forceful and aggressive when he's drunk...
He appologized on Sunday when I was really mad at him...
Should I be worried this is going to lead to abuse or violence?
Is there something else I can do to stop him?
Is it a bad sign that he's more forceful and agressive when he's been drinking?
Answer:
Yes it is a red flag for abuse and violence. Most younger men seem to be about that age when they start abusing their girlfriends. It is very scary and y ou need to think of breaking off the relationship or at least getting him into counseling.
What about his homelife? Good family or a broken home?
There is only two things you can do...
1. Break it off
or
2. get him into counseling ASAP!!
Good luck!
first off his too young to be drinking and secondly you shouldnt be dating someone whos does that to you! be careful! maybe find someone better who wont hurt you.
be carefull, my ex used to do the same thing to me, we also started going out when i was 17 and it was sweet at first but then stuff like that started, and it got worse, i dont want to get into detail on here but if u want to talk feel free to email me malissa_14@yahoo.com,
It's a bad sign as far as his drinking habits go. Hopefully drinking isn't something he likes to do a lot. If so, then I would be concerned for your safety.
He is very aggressive and needs to be alarmed of the consequences of his drinking. They could be hurting or losing you, and it doesn't sound like he wants to lose you.
Let him know that he may need to give up drinking, or leave it at one beer at a time. Otherwise I would definitely be worried for your safety. Please be careful.
Best of luck.
Uh oh! not good. try avoiding if possible parties and such that involve alcohol, because alcohol sounds like the real problem here.tell him you don't like it when he drinks, and if he doesn't listen, leave him. :(
If your 17 , why are you drinking anyway, how did you get it because its illegal for an adult to be alcohol for kids. Have Fun Ruining Your Liver! :p
While neither drinking or the use of drugs are signs of an abusive personality, heavy drinking or drug abuse may be a warning sign and do increase the risks of abuse, especially violence, taking place. Often an abusive person will blame the drink for his/her abuse. However, a person who, knowing there is a risk he/she could be violent when drinking or on drugs, chooses to get drunk or high, is in effect choosing to abuse.
An abuser may physically restrain you from leaving the room, lash out at you with his/her hand or another object, pin you against a wall or shout 'right in your face'. Basically any form of force used during an argument can be a sign that actual violence is a strong possibility.
He is already showing you abuse and violence.
Break up with him now.
This is not the first time he has drank and hurt you. It won't be the last. Leave him before he kills you because he will.
Don't give in to his "sorries". You can do better than this abusive relationship.
If he's already getting drunk at 17, it'll only get worse. If he's trying to feel you up in front of everyone, he has absolutely no respect for you. You'd do well to get rid of him. He may only be abusive when he's drunk, but that's enough to know you don't need to be with him. You deserve someone who will treat you better than that.
The drinking and the physical force concerns me. It's early enough to get away from him pretty easily. Seriously, you are smart to to be asking these questions. Not only is it a bad sign that he is forceful when he drinks, it sounds like he drinks to get drunk and that in a one month period this has happened more than once. Please be sensible and break up with him. Also, I want you to not drink at all when you're driving. Seventeen is too young for drinking, but driving after drinking is stupid at any age.
I'm sorry to say Hun but you just answered your own question!
If you are doubting yourself why are you in the relationship!
Sounds exactly like me and my ex-boyfriend. We used to get drunk and knock the **** out of each other, over any stupid little thing. I was so in love w/him, my bf when we weren't drinking we were a great couple. Get out before you fall even more for him, PLEASE. Trust me on this, I feel for you.
This is not a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. It's an entanglement.
It's already abusive, never mind could it become abusive.
And given you're both underage drinkers, this is already seriously bad enough for both of you to get counseling.
Statistically, you're both headed for a breakup, only to hook up with similar partners and do this all over again. Break the cycle early, like now.
sweetheart,
this is the biggest red flag warning that i have ever seen! And yes it is a bad sign that he's more forceful and agressive when he's been drinking. It sounds to me like he wants to isolate you from your friends and what's with all the phone calls??
This behavior can only lead to abuse and/or violence so my advice to you is to break up with him before you get in too deep. And also the feeling up behavior is totally unhealthy...
it's like he doesn't respect you if you have to tell him 10 times to stop and then he doesn't.
Please, please get out now while you can.there is nothing good about this relationship.it can only get worse. I wish you the best of luck and may God bless and keep you safe in the future.
i agree it sounds like your not in a really healthy relationship but maybe breaking up with him will get him even MORE on your case I'd say try breaking up with him and if he asks why tell him the truth and if that doesn't work go to the main office at your high school and tell them that he has been calling you and how he won't get away from you but first make sure you have an adult you trust((I pick my mom to tell these things to, but we're tight)) anyways talk to that person and tell them what is going through your mind tell them about how you went drinking and even if you get in trouble it could just maybe save your life chica!
XOXO hope all goes well and im so sorry to hear about this!
After he'd had a few beers, he started trying to feel me up in front of everyone at the party, I wasnt comfortable with it so I tried to stop him... Over the course of the night I told him to stop at least 10 times, and I physically pushed him away from me at least 10 times... At one point I tried to just walk away from him and he grabbed me and pulled me back so I couldnt leave...
This isnt the first time he's been a bit forceful but it's by far the worst... He's also more forceful and aggressive when he's drunk...
He appologized on Sunday when I was really mad at him...
Should I be worried this is going to lead to abuse or violence?
Is there something else I can do to stop him?
Is it a bad sign that he's more forceful and agressive when he's been drinking?
Answer:
Yes it is a red flag for abuse and violence. Most younger men seem to be about that age when they start abusing their girlfriends. It is very scary and y ou need to think of breaking off the relationship or at least getting him into counseling.
What about his homelife? Good family or a broken home?
There is only two things you can do...
1. Break it off
or
2. get him into counseling ASAP!!
Good luck!
first off his too young to be drinking and secondly you shouldnt be dating someone whos does that to you! be careful! maybe find someone better who wont hurt you.
be carefull, my ex used to do the same thing to me, we also started going out when i was 17 and it was sweet at first but then stuff like that started, and it got worse, i dont want to get into detail on here but if u want to talk feel free to email me malissa_14@yahoo.com,
It's a bad sign as far as his drinking habits go. Hopefully drinking isn't something he likes to do a lot. If so, then I would be concerned for your safety.
He is very aggressive and needs to be alarmed of the consequences of his drinking. They could be hurting or losing you, and it doesn't sound like he wants to lose you.
Let him know that he may need to give up drinking, or leave it at one beer at a time. Otherwise I would definitely be worried for your safety. Please be careful.
Best of luck.
Uh oh! not good. try avoiding if possible parties and such that involve alcohol, because alcohol sounds like the real problem here.tell him you don't like it when he drinks, and if he doesn't listen, leave him. :(
If your 17 , why are you drinking anyway, how did you get it because its illegal for an adult to be alcohol for kids. Have Fun Ruining Your Liver! :p
While neither drinking or the use of drugs are signs of an abusive personality, heavy drinking or drug abuse may be a warning sign and do increase the risks of abuse, especially violence, taking place. Often an abusive person will blame the drink for his/her abuse. However, a person who, knowing there is a risk he/she could be violent when drinking or on drugs, chooses to get drunk or high, is in effect choosing to abuse.
An abuser may physically restrain you from leaving the room, lash out at you with his/her hand or another object, pin you against a wall or shout 'right in your face'. Basically any form of force used during an argument can be a sign that actual violence is a strong possibility.
He is already showing you abuse and violence.
Break up with him now.
This is not the first time he has drank and hurt you. It won't be the last. Leave him before he kills you because he will.
Don't give in to his "sorries". You can do better than this abusive relationship.
If he's already getting drunk at 17, it'll only get worse. If he's trying to feel you up in front of everyone, he has absolutely no respect for you. You'd do well to get rid of him. He may only be abusive when he's drunk, but that's enough to know you don't need to be with him. You deserve someone who will treat you better than that.
The drinking and the physical force concerns me. It's early enough to get away from him pretty easily. Seriously, you are smart to to be asking these questions. Not only is it a bad sign that he is forceful when he drinks, it sounds like he drinks to get drunk and that in a one month period this has happened more than once. Please be sensible and break up with him. Also, I want you to not drink at all when you're driving. Seventeen is too young for drinking, but driving after drinking is stupid at any age.
I'm sorry to say Hun but you just answered your own question!
If you are doubting yourself why are you in the relationship!
Sounds exactly like me and my ex-boyfriend. We used to get drunk and knock the **** out of each other, over any stupid little thing. I was so in love w/him, my bf when we weren't drinking we were a great couple. Get out before you fall even more for him, PLEASE. Trust me on this, I feel for you.
This is not a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. It's an entanglement.
It's already abusive, never mind could it become abusive.
And given you're both underage drinkers, this is already seriously bad enough for both of you to get counseling.
Statistically, you're both headed for a breakup, only to hook up with similar partners and do this all over again. Break the cycle early, like now.
sweetheart,
this is the biggest red flag warning that i have ever seen! And yes it is a bad sign that he's more forceful and agressive when he's been drinking. It sounds to me like he wants to isolate you from your friends and what's with all the phone calls??
This behavior can only lead to abuse and/or violence so my advice to you is to break up with him before you get in too deep. And also the feeling up behavior is totally unhealthy...
it's like he doesn't respect you if you have to tell him 10 times to stop and then he doesn't.
Please, please get out now while you can.there is nothing good about this relationship.it can only get worse. I wish you the best of luck and may God bless and keep you safe in the future.
i agree it sounds like your not in a really healthy relationship but maybe breaking up with him will get him even MORE on your case I'd say try breaking up with him and if he asks why tell him the truth and if that doesn't work go to the main office at your high school and tell them that he has been calling you and how he won't get away from you but first make sure you have an adult you trust((I pick my mom to tell these things to, but we're tight)) anyways talk to that person and tell them what is going through your mind tell them about how you went drinking and even if you get in trouble it could just maybe save your life chica!
XOXO hope all goes well and im so sorry to hear about this!
Is this a preganancy sign?
probably not, but do pregnant women have regular discharge?
Answer:
Yea...but that does not mean you're pregnant...women have discharge for many reasons...why not take a pregnancy test...thats the easiet way to find out
yes we do but i wouldn't say it's a sign of pregnancy. it doesn't start so early. it could be just an infection so have it checked anyway!
Some may and others don't depends on your body type
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Yea...but that does not mean you're pregnant...women have discharge for many reasons...why not take a pregnancy test...thats the easiet way to find out
yes we do but i wouldn't say it's a sign of pregnancy. it doesn't start so early. it could be just an infection so have it checked anyway!
Some may and others don't depends on your body type
Is this a medical reason or not?
I have big breast and need to get a reduction, but my SSI don't cover it,
but i have hard that if you have the skin under your breast that turns red and the pull of the breast is hurting your sholders and back pain and all the other thing to hurt you
you can get this help if your on SSI or not,
don'e this become a medical problem and not any other kind of problem?
please tell me what you think.
and thanks
Answer:
I think it is!
but i have hard that if you have the skin under your breast that turns red and the pull of the breast is hurting your sholders and back pain and all the other thing to hurt you
you can get this help if your on SSI or not,
don'e this become a medical problem and not any other kind of problem?
please tell me what you think.
and thanks
Answer:
I think it is!
Is this a good workout routine for a 13 year old female?
I began working out a few weeks ago to build my stomach muscles so when I wear a bathing suit this summer, my stomach isn't just "hanging there". I'm not overweight, I'm just not "muscly". Is this a good stomach muscle building routine?
10 crunches
40 of these leg lifting excersizes where you lift your legs and bring them to your chest
15 "lean and bends" (you sit on the floor with your knees bent infront of you and lean back, twisting your upper body as you go down. Then you use your side muscles to pull your body up.)
10 more crunches
Anything I should add? Is this good?
Answer:
push ups can also help! but that sounds good lol you don't mind if i steal your routine do ya i %26lt;33 summer but yea you know my stomach is not a SIX pack
that's great as long as you do at least once every day
10 crunches
40 of these leg lifting excersizes where you lift your legs and bring them to your chest
15 "lean and bends" (you sit on the floor with your knees bent infront of you and lean back, twisting your upper body as you go down. Then you use your side muscles to pull your body up.)
10 more crunches
Anything I should add? Is this good?
Answer:
push ups can also help! but that sounds good lol you don't mind if i steal your routine do ya i %26lt;33 summer but yea you know my stomach is not a SIX pack
that's great as long as you do at least once every day
Is this a sign of prengancy?
Is peeling breasts a sign of prengancy?
ok this has never happend to me before...well once when i was prengant with my daughter...my period s due in a bout a week.im getting mild cramping by my uterus and my nipple r itching soo bad..and now there peeling very bad and very dry!can this be an early sign that im prengant??i hope so!
Answer:
I've never heard of that, but everyone is different, if you have experianced it before with a pregnancy, then maybe it is...Good Luck!
No this is NOT a sign of pregnancy. The itching and peeling sounds like a yeast infection.
Take an early pregnancy test, then you will know for sure.
ok this has never happend to me before...well once when i was prengant with my daughter...my period s due in a bout a week.im getting mild cramping by my uterus and my nipple r itching soo bad..and now there peeling very bad and very dry!can this be an early sign that im prengant??i hope so!
Answer:
I've never heard of that, but everyone is different, if you have experianced it before with a pregnancy, then maybe it is...Good Luck!
No this is NOT a sign of pregnancy. The itching and peeling sounds like a yeast infection.
Take an early pregnancy test, then you will know for sure.
Is there such thing as "Tying your tubes", if so, is it permenant?
Where do I go and get it done if I don't want to have anymore children?
Answer:
it's called "getting your tubes tied" (tubal ligation) and they don't actually tie your fallopian tubes in a bow lol. it is an operation similar to a vasectomy for men. it will prevent you from releasing anymore eggs to get fertilized, which will make it impossible to have children. it is is practically permanent. meaning, you CAN get it reversed in some rare cases, however it is very expensive and difficult to do and there are not guarantees in reversal. if you have any doubts, go with some form of birth control, because once you do it adoption is the only hope of having another child. it is a very simple procedure and is usually on an out-patient basis, so you can go into practically any clinic or hospital and have it done and be out that day. not a difficult procedure at all, again, very similar to the vasectomy for a guy.
Yes. There is. It is not permenant. You can get it fixed again to undo it.
Yes, it can be done, it is surgery though, and it can be reversed too. Just ask your doctor for details, they can answer your questions better than anyone on here.
You're talking about tubal lygation. Meaning that they tie off your fallopian tubes. Usually, it is permanent. But they have techniques now to attempt reversal, and there have been successes. You would need to go to your OB/GYN and make arrangements for this to be done.
Yes in most cases it is permanent, there are some surgeries to untie them but most tubes now are cut and burned which makes reversal almost impossible. It is very, very, rare that a Tubaligation doesn't work and pregnancy occurs. So for the most part this is the most effective form of birth control.
don't trust it
techniques may be different today
but my momma slipped through grandma's tied tubes
and otherwise
i would not be here now
(good news or bad?)
You will have to speak to a gyn about it first and foremost.
Either they will use clamps, or they will burn them. Either way its a day surgery. I'd personally recommend the clamps incase you want to have them undone for whatever reason one day.
Your gyn is the one who will do the surgery.
They don't actual tie your tubes they either use clamps or bands or burn them. And it's called tubal ligation and yes it's permenant. And there done at either hospitals or clinics
you go to a gynocologist and they will set you up for surgery, it doesnt always make it totally permanant but if they burn the ends of the tubes it helps, mine healed and i got pregnant again but the doctor didnt want to do the job for me in the first place. mom swore he tied slip knots.
yes ther is and no it is not permenant
There is such a thing, but you must talk to your doctor. You will have to sign a paper saying that you understand that it is not 100%. My cousin had it done and one of her tubes "came un done". Basically when she went to get a cat scan of her tubes, the dye they injected in her ran through the one tube, which means that an egg would have been able to pass. She couldn't do anything about it because without knowing, she had signed a waiver for that reason. Another girl at my work had her fourth child after having her tubes tied. Just get all the facts, it doens't happen all the time, but it is something to keep in mind
Answer:
it's called "getting your tubes tied" (tubal ligation) and they don't actually tie your fallopian tubes in a bow lol. it is an operation similar to a vasectomy for men. it will prevent you from releasing anymore eggs to get fertilized, which will make it impossible to have children. it is is practically permanent. meaning, you CAN get it reversed in some rare cases, however it is very expensive and difficult to do and there are not guarantees in reversal. if you have any doubts, go with some form of birth control, because once you do it adoption is the only hope of having another child. it is a very simple procedure and is usually on an out-patient basis, so you can go into practically any clinic or hospital and have it done and be out that day. not a difficult procedure at all, again, very similar to the vasectomy for a guy.
Yes. There is. It is not permenant. You can get it fixed again to undo it.
Yes, it can be done, it is surgery though, and it can be reversed too. Just ask your doctor for details, they can answer your questions better than anyone on here.
You're talking about tubal lygation. Meaning that they tie off your fallopian tubes. Usually, it is permanent. But they have techniques now to attempt reversal, and there have been successes. You would need to go to your OB/GYN and make arrangements for this to be done.
Yes in most cases it is permanent, there are some surgeries to untie them but most tubes now are cut and burned which makes reversal almost impossible. It is very, very, rare that a Tubaligation doesn't work and pregnancy occurs. So for the most part this is the most effective form of birth control.
don't trust it
techniques may be different today
but my momma slipped through grandma's tied tubes
and otherwise
i would not be here now
(good news or bad?)
You will have to speak to a gyn about it first and foremost.
Either they will use clamps, or they will burn them. Either way its a day surgery. I'd personally recommend the clamps incase you want to have them undone for whatever reason one day.
Your gyn is the one who will do the surgery.
They don't actual tie your tubes they either use clamps or bands or burn them. And it's called tubal ligation and yes it's permenant. And there done at either hospitals or clinics
you go to a gynocologist and they will set you up for surgery, it doesnt always make it totally permanant but if they burn the ends of the tubes it helps, mine healed and i got pregnant again but the doctor didnt want to do the job for me in the first place. mom swore he tied slip knots.
yes ther is and no it is not permenant
There is such a thing, but you must talk to your doctor. You will have to sign a paper saying that you understand that it is not 100%. My cousin had it done and one of her tubes "came un done". Basically when she went to get a cat scan of her tubes, the dye they injected in her ran through the one tube, which means that an egg would have been able to pass. She couldn't do anything about it because without knowing, she had signed a waiver for that reason. Another girl at my work had her fourth child after having her tubes tied. Just get all the facts, it doens't happen all the time, but it is something to keep in mind
Is there such a thing as...?
'Puberty Reverse'...like when it kind of undoes itself? It's just I've not had my period this month and I'm wondering if that's why (I've not lost weight, not been more stressed than usual, and not pregnant for sure). It would only be my fifth time...
Answer:
yes they sell it at Walgreen's
the same thing is happening to me. dotn worry you are nto alone. i dotn know why though. i dont think there is such a thing bout reverse. my freind said to see a doctor.
When you first begin menstuating, it can take a good bit of time before your periods become regular. No worries. Your pubesence has not become "reversed".
Hang in there,
~M~
There's no such thing as puberty reversal, baby. Though people can have complications or problems with it, depending on their medical/family history and issues. Give it a little time. When you first start out, you may be a little irregular or in and out. Every girl's body is different. Periods can last 3-7 days, be light or extremely heavy, come with debilitating cramps and symptoms - or none at all, save the cycle, itself...honey you'd be surprised how unique each woman can be, concerning her cycle.
I've missed mine a few times in my life. Due to stress, most likely (and your body doesn't always have an "on time" reaction, according to you). I definitely wasn't pregnant, and mine are all over the place most of the time, anyway. :)
Something you may want to do, is keep a log of your cycles. Use a calendar or make your own chart, and track it. Mark the day it comes each month. You may also want to comment or mark how long it lasts, and whether it was heavy or light. This will help you know what is normal or not, for you. You'll know when to expect it (which, trust me - is VERY helpful), and it will be a good reference for you and your physician - especially if any problems do occur. Take care, baby. You'll be alright. :)
Answer:
yes they sell it at Walgreen's
the same thing is happening to me. dotn worry you are nto alone. i dotn know why though. i dont think there is such a thing bout reverse. my freind said to see a doctor.
When you first begin menstuating, it can take a good bit of time before your periods become regular. No worries. Your pubesence has not become "reversed".
Hang in there,
~M~
There's no such thing as puberty reversal, baby. Though people can have complications or problems with it, depending on their medical/family history and issues. Give it a little time. When you first start out, you may be a little irregular or in and out. Every girl's body is different. Periods can last 3-7 days, be light or extremely heavy, come with debilitating cramps and symptoms - or none at all, save the cycle, itself...honey you'd be surprised how unique each woman can be, concerning her cycle.
I've missed mine a few times in my life. Due to stress, most likely (and your body doesn't always have an "on time" reaction, according to you). I definitely wasn't pregnant, and mine are all over the place most of the time, anyway. :)
Something you may want to do, is keep a log of your cycles. Use a calendar or make your own chart, and track it. Mark the day it comes each month. You may also want to comment or mark how long it lasts, and whether it was heavy or light. This will help you know what is normal or not, for you. You'll know when to expect it (which, trust me - is VERY helpful), and it will be a good reference for you and your physician - especially if any problems do occur. Take care, baby. You'll be alright. :)
Is there such a thing as Vaginal low self esteem???
Answer:
Lmao!
I hope not. If you don't like looking at your vagina put the mirror down and buy some bigger pants.
i dont think your vagina has a mind of it's own but if your not confident in yourself then it may affect other aspects about yourself
I believe there is. Low esteem has to do with your mind. Psychologically, you may be upset and depress over your body and how it looks and function. I believe a doctor can help to change its looks and function. If there's nothing wrong with these two. Well, look for a man who appreciates you and everything of you. (If you r not married) If you are married, and its your partner that cause you to be having low self-esteem. Then, ask him to stop complaining and give you the money to fix up by a plastic surgeon on whatever he complained about. If not shut his damn mouth up. Good luck.
women's vagina's have no mind of their own but men's penis's do lol
Never heard of it myself
Is there something wrong with me?
lately i have been losing a lot of weight. but i been eating like a pig! i am a size 3 at my pants and they are getting really big. and my shirts have been getting really loose to! it is really weird! what is wrong with me?
also i have these red pimple like bumps on both of my arms it is really nasty! what are they?
ps. i have had the bumps on my arms before i have been loosing weight!
help me
Answer:
ur gonna die in 7 days hahaahhaaahahaha
the only thing i can say, is go to the doctor. u dont want it to get worse do u?
have u been drinking more water lately? like u cant get enogh to drink? loosing weight COULD be a sign of diabetes. please go to the doc
You should really see a doc and get some blood work done. I can name of a few reasond this can be happening but dont get freaked out. Being HIV positve, and also having a cancer that is advancing somewhere inside your body. Go to see a doc ASAP.
You should see a doctor as the previous answer suggested. You may have an infection or something elso that is causing you metabolism to "rev" up.
GO TO A DOCTOR ASAP!
I am no doctor but I would not let the other posts worry you. You can be loosing weight because of many reasons...some good and some bad. You should go to the doctor to get checked out just in case it is a serious problem, but more importantly go to find out that you do not need to be worried. Worrying and stress can make you feel symptoms that arent there.
Hope everything works out!
also i have these red pimple like bumps on both of my arms it is really nasty! what are they?
ps. i have had the bumps on my arms before i have been loosing weight!
help me
Answer:
ur gonna die in 7 days hahaahhaaahahaha
the only thing i can say, is go to the doctor. u dont want it to get worse do u?
have u been drinking more water lately? like u cant get enogh to drink? loosing weight COULD be a sign of diabetes. please go to the doc
You should really see a doc and get some blood work done. I can name of a few reasond this can be happening but dont get freaked out. Being HIV positve, and also having a cancer that is advancing somewhere inside your body. Go to see a doc ASAP.
You should see a doctor as the previous answer suggested. You may have an infection or something elso that is causing you metabolism to "rev" up.
GO TO A DOCTOR ASAP!
I am no doctor but I would not let the other posts worry you. You can be loosing weight because of many reasons...some good and some bad. You should go to the doctor to get checked out just in case it is a serious problem, but more importantly go to find out that you do not need to be worried. Worrying and stress can make you feel symptoms that arent there.
Hope everything works out!
Is there something wrong if my periods continue to be between 45 and 60 days apart?
I'm not sure how long this has been going on, but for at least a year I've been having my periods about a month and a half apart. Recently it was two months apart. Some of the things that supposedly cause this (anorexia, stress, etc) don't apply to me. I'm not sure if it's just normal, or if something is wrong with me and I should see a professional. Does anyone have specific knowledge about this topic?
Answer:
Every ones body is different. The perfect period is supposedly 28 days but most of us aren't that lucky. I have to stay on birth control to control my period because without it my period is usually between 40 to 60 days apart and i can never tell when i am supposed to start. The doctors never found anything to be wrong with me, i just had irregular periods. It just happens to some people. You should talk to your doctor about it, make sure that nothing is causing this to happen and then talk about getting on birth control to regulate it. Even on the pill my periods can sometimes be off but i have a much better time of keeping them within a normal range while i am on the pill. I really wouldn't worry too much about it but it would be a good idea to talk to your gyno just in case.
you should see a gyno. It's not "normal". Normal periods are about23-32 days apart.
you need a check up ...not normal..
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Every ones body is different. The perfect period is supposedly 28 days but most of us aren't that lucky. I have to stay on birth control to control my period because without it my period is usually between 40 to 60 days apart and i can never tell when i am supposed to start. The doctors never found anything to be wrong with me, i just had irregular periods. It just happens to some people. You should talk to your doctor about it, make sure that nothing is causing this to happen and then talk about getting on birth control to regulate it. Even on the pill my periods can sometimes be off but i have a much better time of keeping them within a normal range while i am on the pill. I really wouldn't worry too much about it but it would be a good idea to talk to your gyno just in case.
you should see a gyno. It's not "normal". Normal periods are about23-32 days apart.
you need a check up ...not normal..
Is there something for women with menopause having hot flashes that does not have a side effect of blood clots
Answer:
try to eat a lot of soy, either soy milk,yoghurt or soy crispies. Try to get red clover capsules,they are homeopathic and have no negative side effects at all
eat well
I took Black Cohash and something else, herb wise. I used a tower fan at night.
Now I am not bothered by them.
Make sure you take your multivitamin every night.
You can check this site ou:
www.thelimucompany.com
my friends name is Cindy and her ID# 8531380 you can also e-mail me so I can give you her phone # or personal e-mail which I don't like to display since there are many pervs out there and I don't want her to be mad at me.
She can explain more about limu or other natural products that can help you with menopause.
Yes there is ask your Pharmacy about over the counter drugs for hot flashes. Been there done that!!
I am where you are and have been helped with hot flashes and overall general health since taking the supplements from my source below- sealogix fish oil-womens am and pm daily suppliment and also the osteo essentials. There is also a weight loss shake that can be taken to increase soy consumption and added to a regular diet so that you use it for soy addition and not meal replacement. I have felt so much better since taking these products and the hot flashes are all but gone. I hope this helps as this can be an awful time
with not only the flashes but tiredness and failing memory. I feel like a new woman since adding these products. Look on the source under people. Hope you feel better soon .All the best to you.
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